My sister had accused me of being a serial monogamist before this breakup, and it really hit a nerve but I needed to hear it. One of my most intense anxieties around relationships is a loss of self and independence, but once I did not have a romantic relationship to occupy myself, I had to actually wrangle with the issues that made me a codependent serial monogamist in the first place.
Read MoreSomething really incredible happens when you find people that know how to listen, feel, and work as a team with an attitude of abundance. Every time I am able to get even a few of my wonderful shrimpies together it is usually nourishing and uplifting physically, spiritually, and emotionally. This trip to Whidbey, Fidalgo and Lopez Islands was no different!
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