My partner’s parents are really lovely and I appreciate so much that they make the effort to visit with him (us) despite living so far away in Georgia. They decided to make a big road trip out of coming to see us, going through Texas to see cave dwellings and abandoned mining towns in Colorado, beautiful rocks in Utah, and dahlia farms in Oregon. When they finally got to us they had already been on the road for almost two weeks!
Read MoreBisque had the great idea to go to the Canadian gulf islands for a bike trip over the July 4th weekend and I was so in. I had two other friends that had gone the last year and had all come back sunkissed and blissed out from hanging out on beaches and eating pastries. I was so excited! The Canadian gulf islands are a series of islands off the north coast of Vancouver Island which are connected by a network of ferries.
Read MoreMy partner and I have a bad track record of trying to hike or ride in the mountains too early. We’re both from warmer places (California & Georgia) so, even after 8 years of living here we both get a little confused. Last year we tried to backpack around Mount Baker in early July and were thwarted by thick snow cover, this time we tried to bike around the Gifford Pinchot National Forest in late May and also ran into a lot of snow. I was trying to come up with a fun and simple backcountry route for an upcoming Friends on Bikes campout and this was not the one.
Read MoreMy partner’s grandmother was turning 90 in early May, and since the airport was frozen and prevented us from visiting for Christmas, we decided to combine a trip to Georgia to surprise Grandma on her birthday with a visit to Luke’s uncle Jay and aunt Michelle in New Jersey, and a few days in New York City. So we flew into Jersey and hung out with Luke’s very expressive aunt and uncle — they are Broadway stars who are playing the leads in Wicked!
Read More2021 is the second instance of SPLAIN, and it took me longer than usual (two year, yikes!) to get the data out because I'm a lot busier with a job I really love and building a home within a wonderful partnership. I am one person, doing this for free, because I’m a data nerd who loves bikes.
Read MoreI think there are a lot of folks that are intimidated by cycling or commuting by bike in cold, rainy, snowy, or icy conditions – and with good reason! I put together a few recommendations on how to best approach cycling in less-than-ideal conditions that will hopefully help you stay pedaling year-round.
Read MoreLike most gravel things I do, my friend Katie got me out to the Kitsap Peninsula to try a challenging route I hadn’t attempted before. She sold me on the route being for ‘horse girls’ (I was a horse girl once upon a time…. cringe!).
Read MoreFriends on Bikes began as a way to foster community with trans, women, intersex and gender nonconforming BIPOC, and it is so fitting that our sibling chapter in Portland reached out to do a joint ride! It was a short and sweet trip — in and out in a weekend, no gear packing, just car camping and a sweet day ride.
Read MoreI got a call from the scheduler on a Thursday, was scheduled for my pre-op appointment the following Monday, and had my surgery that Friday. My doctor, partner, family, and friends asked me if I was nervous and I only felt euphoria and disbelief. I literally could not process what happened until after the surgery.
Read MoreMy sister had accused me of being a serial monogamist before this breakup, and it really hit a nerve but I needed to hear it. One of my most intense anxieties around relationships is a loss of self and independence, but once I did not have a romantic relationship to occupy myself, I had to actually wrangle with the issues that made me a codependent serial monogamist in the first place.
Read MoreI was looking for an medium-intensity backcountry route for the fall and I found the Fire and Ice Cave Loop by Molly Sugar. It seemed to have the sweet spot of being close-ish to home, having lots of camping options, and not being super punchy.
Read MoreTwo years ago I conducted a survey of trans, transgender, two-spirit, women, intersex, non-binary, femme, genderqueer, and gender nonconforming cyclists on Duwamish territory now known as Seattle to understand the cultural climate of bike shops. I chose to survey bike shops because they are discrete and are usually the place where many people begin their cycling journey.
Read MoreMy friend Katie is a very intrepid cyclist and most of the cool stuff I do can be attributed to how cool she is, especially since she’s so much faster than I am. She invited me to ride the Red Meadow Pass Loop in Montana in July with some other bike friends from the Pacific Northwest.
Read MoreI got into riding gravel/unpaved trails and roads a few years ago and I gotta say, it’s pretty great! I am lucky to live in Seattle which is surrounded by lots of forests with publicly accessible logging roads and unpaved trails on old rail lines. Here is an non-comprehensive list of some gravel routes I have enjoyed in Western Washington!
Read MoreI LOVE hot springs. So much. I used to live in Colorado and would be out finding hot springs several weekends a month. Since I moved to the Pacific Northwest I have been in search of nice natural hot springs, but it has been tough. Most of the nice springs in the Pacific Northwest are concentrated in Oregon, Idaho, and British Columbia which is more convenient than going all the way to the Southwest, but still not as nice as having it close to home.
Read MoreSometimes a friendship doesn’t serve one person or the other, or you have grown in different ways. Maybe there is a hurt that is difficult to forgive or needs time to heal. It can be easy to take friendship for granted, we have friends that we have had since before we were able to talk or came out of circumstances for which we had little control. Friendships are relationships, and relationships take work.
Read MoreSomething really incredible happens when you find people that know how to listen, feel, and work as a team with an attitude of abundance. Every time I am able to get even a few of my wonderful shrimpies together it is usually nourishing and uplifting physically, spiritually, and emotionally. This trip to Whidbey, Fidalgo and Lopez Islands was no different!
Read MoreWhen you feel like you are in a sea of gear and trail mix…. Fear not! This handy dandy packing guide is here to help take the stress out of your bike camping adventure.
Read MoreI have been really fortunate to be learning, growing, and organizing with Friends on Bikes (FOB), a cycling community for trans, women, intersex, and gender nonconforming Black, Indigenous, and People of the Global Majority. The group started in Portland with Molly Sugar and grew to include sibling chapters in Seattle and Toronto. In July 2021 FOB hosted its first bike camping trip since 2018, when the original organizer, SJ Brooks, passed. We are fortunate to carry on their legacy of organizing for underrepresented genders and racial/ethnic/cultural backgrounds in cycling.
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